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Crisis Pregnancy Blog

09/11/06

A 9/11 Tribute - Part 2

Posted by : Coley S. in Crisis Pregnancy Blog at 12:49 am , 405 words, 69 views  
Categories: Current Events
Continued from Part 1…………

Due to laws, Mariah, was unable to get her original birth certificate until she turned nineteen. On Jan 31, 2004, Mariah’s nineteenth birthday, from her college dorm in Chicago, she sent a letter she had prepared ahead of time to the Minnesota Department of Healthy requesting a copy of her birth certificate. By the time she flew back home to Minnesota for spring break, the birth certificate was there. flag

Her adoptive parents had already looked at it and found out that her premonition a few years earlier had been correct. Tom Burnett, one of the United Flight 93 heroes, was her birthfather!

While in college, Tom Burnett’s then girlfriend became pregnant in an unplanned pregnancy. The two were opposed to abortion and initially wanted to get married and parent. Tom was very involved in the pregnancy, working two jobs to pay for medical bills and present for his daughter’s birth. Eventually, the two decided it would be best for the baby if she was placed for adoption.

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After finding out she was indeed the biological daughter of Tom Burnett and unsure of the reactions of Tom’s family, Mariah’s mother sent word through Catholic Charities, that Mariah was interested in meeting them. They too were interested in meeting her. They were unsure what Tom’s family and his wife, Deena, knew of Mariah’s birth and adoption.

Mariah volunteered to have a DNA test just to be sure she was indeed Tom’s daughter. Her DNA was tested against a sample of Tom’s and proves that she is “absolutely, without a doubt” Tom’s daughter.

So, to make a long article a bit shorter, Mariah has ended up meeting most of her birth family, including Deena, Tom’s daughters, parents, and sisters. She has been welcomed in by most of them. She has ongoing relationships with her half sisters and Deena. She has gotten to know the type of man and father Tom Burnett was through his family and Deena was even able to give her a letter that Tom had started writing to Mariah when she was younger for the day they would be reunited.

Mariah concludes the article by saying, “Even if he’d never been on that plane on September 11th, he’d still be a hero to me. He gave me life and a chance with a wonderful family.”


Story from the St. Paul Pioneer Press

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: lahdh4 [Member] Email
He was a hero before 9/11 and the fact that his family, most of them, have accepted her and she is able to find out who her bdad was makes them a hero as well.
PermalinkPermalink 09/12/06 @ 10:22
Comment from: Peanut [Member] Email
Coley,
Thank you so much for sharing this very moving story! I was so surprised that this was never mentioned in the major network media because I believe it shows this man's courage in yet another way. What a positive light this story could bring to the image of many other first parents who might feel shamed or forgotten. I also greatly admire his wife's Dena's love an acceptance of her husbands daughter, she is a hero & role model herself!
I hope everyone out there who reads this will write to the major network news and encourage them to do their own follow up on this story. Hello Dateline, here is your POSITIVE adoption story, in a BIG way!
PermalinkPermalink 09/12/06 @ 20:14
Comment from: Brittanys1stmom [Member] Email · http://www.birthmombuds.com/showcase_alicia.htm
I agree Peanut, these kind of stories should be on Dateline. Lahbd, you said it so beautifully. I could not have said that any better.
PermalinkPermalink 09/12/06 @ 22:22
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